tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10112235.post4062376269397340497..comments2023-09-22T10:27:08.895-07:00Comments on Life As I Know It: ShakenHistoryGeekhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02670515936852776370noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10112235.post-59215639061894328292007-12-30T19:52:00.000-08:002007-12-30T19:52:00.000-08:00I believe Hippie Chick is right; it makes sense. ...I believe Hippie Chick is right; it makes sense. There's bound to be these feelings of jealousy and competition, conscious or otherwise, and they're going to surface from time to time. At least, so far, the three of you have been able to address them. I hope this resolves comfortably for you all. I also agree that you're incredibly strong, perhaps even more than you know.<BR/><BR/>*hug*Aravishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07766002202567429153noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10112235.post-27784344890013038132007-12-30T11:51:00.000-08:002007-12-30T11:51:00.000-08:00Wow that sounds very intense. To me it sounds like...Wow that sounds very intense. <BR/>To me it sounds like part of it is the natural jealousy that arises between two people who love the same person and are thrown together for better or for worse. I'm not saying that it's not disappointing and very hurtful that she would accuse you of purposeful sabotage, and you're right the people who know you know that you would never do something intentional like that - but people have different ways of expressing jealousy that aren't always so clear and forthright. You both have a lot of talents and it's also natural that you two should be proud of them - and the fact is, like it or not, you are competing for S's attention at times. It's likely unintentional or subconscious at times and fully conscious at other times as you've blogged about. I think it's great that you want to clear the air and as you and SS have been through rough times before, I think you will be able to get past this one too and hopefully with continued respect for one another. I think she did mean to hurt you too but I doubt it was really about the camera. Keep the faith, you two will be able to work this out. I know it's really hard though - and I think it's great that as hard as these things have been, you have dealt with them and faced them - and you should be very proud of yourself, it's way more than most people are able to do. You are a very strong woman and it's ok for strong women to not always feel that way :) I 'm sending you tons of love and oxoxox and hippy chick goodvibes. I know 2008 will be a good one for you!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10112235.post-65365578726816804942007-12-30T11:08:00.000-08:002007-12-30T11:08:00.000-08:00Yes, Have a good day, and a Happy New Year! It sou...Yes, Have a good day, and a Happy New Year! It sounds to me like she was just trying to hurt you by accusing you of breaking the camera---not that she really believed it, but that she realy was mad and really wanted to hurt you. that's just my opinion.Jessicahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05785325339726831634noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10112235.post-4905283854952975712007-12-30T09:54:00.000-08:002007-12-30T09:54:00.000-08:00Do you know the old saying "todays tragedies are t...Do you know the old saying "todays tragedies are tomorrows anecdotes"? It strikes me that this might be one of those issues that is better left to die, than to constantly rehash. Possibly the passage of time will take the edge off. Look at the bright side, imagine if your poly relationship was with two men. The conversation might go as such "Dude, you deal with it, I'm playing Xbox" "No way, it's your turn dude, I did it last time" Meanwhile, you stand to the side doing a slow burn. If S can truly juggle the emotions of both female partners, then he truly is an amazing man. Good luck with this Spins, and I hope you come to some sort of accommodation with your feelings. Have a Happy New Year, and I'm hoping for the best in 08 for you.Cody Boneshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12743998050700202712noreply@blogger.com